What Helped Me

Sensory Needs and Gentle Interpretations

A child’s sensory choices can tell you what helped their body feel safer, calmer, or more settled. These interpretations aren’t rules — just gentle possibilities to help you respond with care.

Fidget Toy

This may show a need for something to touch, something to focus on, or emotional release.

Supportive response: Provide a fidget tool and let the child use it freely. No need to ask why — the choice speaks for itself.

I Want My Blanket

This may express a need for warmth, protection, or retreat.

Supportive response: Offer a blanket or soft wrap. Sit nearby quietly if invited, and allow space to settle.

Chew Necklace

This may signal a need for oral sensory input, grounding, or self-soothing.

Supportive response: Offer a chew necklace or safe oral item. Avoid framing it as a bad habit — it’s a valid regulation strategy.

Soft Clothes

This may show a need for comfort, reduced sensory irritation, or emotional safety.

Supportive response: Honour clothing preferences. Avoid forcing uncomfortable textures or uniforms — comfort matters.

“Feeling safe and understood helps every child feel better.” ❤️

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